Anonymous asked:

Hello, can you tell us how to move on from ex?

blossomfully answered:

Okay. Here we go. 

Step one: Stop trying so hard. They were a big part of your life and that means you’re not going to be able to get over them just like that

Step two: Don’t blame yourself and don’t blame them. In fact, you should probably absolve everyone involved of blame. Moving on means forgiving. 

Step three: Realise that they might be great, but they are not great for you. No matter what you think, it didn’t work out for a reason and therefore breaking up means you are one step closer to meeting the person who is right for you

Step four: Begin again. That chapter of your life is gone and while it might be nice to reminisce once in while it isn’t healthy to remain there. Picture a road. Wouldn’t you much rather go where you haven’t been than stay in mundane predictability?

Step five:  Learn fall in love with yourself all over again.  Break ups usually kill self confidence so much, so before you can move on you have to go back to how you were before.